Drawer Monsters - Sewn gifts from boys

It's Grandma's birthday and the boys wanted to do something for her.  Older Toad has been drawing reams of monsters so I thought we could combine his current interest in monsters and their love of sewing with something for Grandma.  Everyone likes their drawers to smell nice so the boys made monster sachets.

First I asked older Toad to draw some monsters on to 5" square pieces of paper.  Then we sorted the monsters by which were doable and which were too hard to sew.  I xeroxed his drawings on to multiple sheets of regular paper for pattern pieces.  He cut out his pattern pieces and then pinned those to the colored felt he chose.

I let him use my fabric scissors for this so I sat and watched him.

Then younger Toad and I did all the machine sewing.  I put the presser foot up on a box and let him do the footwork and I did all the steering.  Once we had them stitched up (except for the hole for stuffing) we filled them with lavender and stitched over the last hole.  While we were doing the machine sewing, older Toad was doing the hand sewing of the eyes.

When we chose our monsters we talked about using buttons for eyes.  Once we opened up the sewing box, they were drawn to the sparklies so we used those instead.  I had to finish the hand sewing on the last one as fatigue was setting in.  I thought they all turned out super cute and it was a good project for this week.  Older Toad is sick so we're emphasizing fun over drudgery.  I think Grandma will be happy.

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Communication Tools for Boys

Older Toad has some issues with interpersonal skills.  Often, he doesn't mean any ill will towards others but he doesn't understand how his verbal and non-verbal cues are being interpreted.  Sometimes he is pushing buttons.  This has pretty much always been an issue for us and we continue to work on it.  This year has been better.  I'm attributing the improvements to better health (aren't we all unpleasant when we don't feel good) and all the work we've put in as a family towards helping him improve.

It's tough knowing how to help a young kid with social issues.  How do you pitch it to their level and make it constructive and concrete?  I came up with this project midway through last school year and have referred back to it all year.  Younger Toad can be very unpleasant (of course he is three and this is pretty typical for a three year old) and I'm guessing we will be revisiting this idea for him very soon.

We called them our Go, Caution, Stop charts.  Little boys love vehicles.  I thought I might have some success with these abstract concepts if I pitched it all around vehicles.  I primed the pump with some Bob the Builder, Thomas the Train and documentaries on vehicles of all sorts.  Then I made up 4 pieces of large paper with equal green, yellow and red stripes running vertically, leaving room at the top for a title.

I labeled them Eyes, Ears, Voice, Body.  The idea being we'd have one chart for each of our communication strategies.  Then we sat down and I explained traffic signals and how they regulated cars.  This got vigorous head nodding as Toad already knew that.  I then compared that to our behavior as people;  sometimes we treat others great (car's cruising along), sometimes we're walking on the edge (car better slow down), and sometimes we treat people badly and need to stop our behavior (car better stop).  He seemed to get the analogy right off.  I did the writing and asked him what he thought were good behaviors; with his body for example, ones that could be interpreted badly and ones that were never ok.  Once he listed all his choices, I offered some suggestions.  We went through all the charts in about a week.

I typed up his work below. 

After they were done, if he started in with something that we'd determined was a yellow, he'd be asked to switch that behavior to a green.  He frequently goes straight to red but it at least gave us something to point to and say "We've agreed this is not ok.  How are you going to modify your actions to tone it down into the green zone?"

BODY

Green

• Hugs and kisses

• Showing appreciation

• Face to face talking

• Body language matches words

Yellow

• Pointing with our fingers

• Walking away when people are speaking

• Fidgeting

• Leaving without communicating to the other person

• Moving around when you're talking

Red

• Not being safe

• Hitting

• Invading others' space

• Disrupting other people's work

• Taking other people's things

• Silly body language

• Angry body language

VOICE

Green

• Pointing your voice to the person you're talking to

• Calm volume

• Speak calmly

• Speak slowly

• Nice tone to your voice

• Apologize when you're wrong

Yellow

• Interrupting

• Talking too fast

• Whispering

Red

• Funny mouth movements

• Silly noises

• Yelling

• Whining

 EYES

Green

• Looking toward someone when they're speaking

• Looking toward someone when you're listening

• Calm eyes

Yellow

He didn't have any here

Red

• Looking away from someone when they're speaking

• Squirly eyes

EARS

Green

• Listening carefully while someone's is speaking

• Listening carefully when you're far away from the person speaking

Yellow

• Listening while doing something else

Red

• Not listening to someone when they're speaking

• Plugging your ears when listening or speaking

I picked vehicles and these colors because I thought they'd appeal in my house.  You could of course adjust this project to many themes or color schemes.

If you've got any great suggestions for helping kids with their communications skills, I'm all ears!

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 "The Wayback Machine"

This is really neat.  It's got all the back issues of Boy's Life Magazine.  The back issues have great how - to's.

And most people know by now Neil Armstrong died this week.  I didn't know he was an Eagle Scout.  My boys love going to the Kennedy Space Center and when I told them the news they said, "Who?"  When I reminded them of the pictures they saw of the first footprint on the moon and his famous 'mankind' quote they said "Oh, Wow."  I'm sure his accomplishments will continue to inspire other generations to "Wow".

Here's the link to one of the longer profiles about him from Boy's Life.