I bribe my kids. Just to get that out
in the open. I want them to love math in spite of the fact I'm
rather math phobic. In homeschooling them I've come to realize I'm
not inherently bad at math, I just got a very poor math education.
So I keep my feelings under wraps and I compensate with chocolate.
Younger Toad asks to do math every
day. He knows math comes with M& M's or mini marshmallows (which are
his absolute favorite thing) so for him it's super great fun.
He's only 3, so it's really all about
counting. I use a free math printable from Montessori Printshop (01-10 quantity, symbol and written word cards).
I printed out two. One is whole, and one I cut up for matching. He counts the red dots,
puts a treat on the dots, counts the treats and then he gets to match
the numbers and words (from the sheet that was cut). Some days we'll
do a little addition and subtraction too before they get eaten. “If
you have one marshmallow here, and you add these two marshmallows,
how many marshmallows do you get to eat?” We've been doing that
for awhile and he loves it.
This week I wanted to try something a
little different so I got out a ruler and taped the ends to the table (so
it didn't slide around and destroy our piles). Then we counted the
numbers on the ruler and placed the correct number of M&M's above the number. By
building the M&M towers, it really reinforces each number is
one bigger than the last. The Montessori sheets were becoming a
little rote and he really had to focus on this activity so we will
continue to do it for awhile.
Older Toad gets M&M's too. He gets
one M&M for every math problem he gets right but I take 3 away
for every one he gets wrong. This was in response to how he was
handling his math. He was not checking his work. If he didn't
know an answer, he'd guess and wait for you to correct him. I'm
trying to enforce him checking his own work. We're focusing on
subtraction right now. By encouraging him to check his own work
we're drilling the inverse operation at the same time, but not
requiring twice the work. It has slowed him down a bit and
encouraged him to focus. One day he got no M&M's and that made
quite an impression. After starting this, he still makes mistakes of course, but he feels
the system is fair since he's getting more candy than he did before we started.